AN EXCERPT FROM THE PERFECT ROOM: TIMELESS DESIGNS FOR INTENTIONAL LIVING

“The bed is the most important piece of furniture in the room, so it demands careful attention. Whether antique or modern, statement frames with posts or canopies instantly make a strong impression. Lavishly upholstered headboards also draw attention where it is due. Integrating the bed into a niche or paneled wall unites it with the architecture while also creating the appearance of an oversize headboard. In such cases, I often layer in a small, upholstered headboard for comfort and texture. Beds should always be dressed to coordinate with their immediate surroundings. I like layering varied textures like linen, velvet, and silk for an inviting sensory experience.”

Creating a bedroom that feels like a sanctuary starts with layers—textiles, lighting, artwork, and accents that blend seamlessly to evoke warmth, calm, and personal comfort. I believe your bedroom should be a haven, a place where each element works together to bring you tranquility and timeless style. Let’s explore how to thoughtfully layer your bedroom to make it feel like a true retreat. To learn more, pick up your copy of The Perfect Room.

START FROM THE GROUND UP — RUGS

A bedroom’s foundation begins with a well-chosen rug. It anchors the space and provides a soft, welcoming feel underfoot. For layering rugs in your bedroom, I love selecting a large natural fiber base—think sisal or jute for a grounding, organic touch. From there, layer on a softer, more luxurious wool or silk rug, or even a vintage piece. The contrast of textures adds richness to the space while keeping it cozy. Opt for something with soft hues or subtle patterns to enhance, not overwhelm, your bedroom.

LAYER YOUR BEDDING THOUGHTFULLY

Your bedding is the heart of your bedroom. When layering your bedding, begin with high-quality sheets in natural fabrics like cotton or linen—something breathable and timeless. From there, fold over a plush duvet or comforter, then add a quilt or blanket at the foot of the bed for extra warmth and texture. This layering not only gives you versatility for seasonal changes but also adds visual interest.

Pillows are where you can have some fun. I like to layer pillows in a mix of textures—linen, velvet, and wool—blending neutral tones with a few subtle patterns or even vintage accents for a personalized touch. A throw, casually draped, completes the layered look while bringing softness and a lived-in feel.

MIX IN OLD AND NEW

One of my favorite ways to add depth to a bedroom is by mixing antique pieces with modern elements. An heirloom dresser paired with sleek nightstands can create a balance between history and modernity, bringing character to your space. Consider adding a vintage mirror or antique bench at the foot of the bed to give a sense of collected warmth. These storied pieces anchor the room, making it feel like a space that’s evolved over time.

LAYER IN YOUR LIGHTING

Lighting in a bedroom should be soft, layered, and inviting. Start with a statement chandelier or pendant that complements the room’s style—something that feels warm, yet elegant. From there, bedside lamps offer task lighting, perfect for reading or winding down. Wall sconces can add another layer of ambient light while saving space on your nightstands. I always recommend incorporating dimmers or smart lighting to control the mood of the room throughout the day.

ARTWORK AS THE FINAL LAYER

Artwork in a bedroom should reflect your personality and contribute to the calming atmosphere. Whether it’s a large statement piece above the bed or a curated gallery wall of smaller works, art provides the final, personal layer to your bedroom. I love incorporating a mix of original art, vintage finds, and sculptural pieces. A favorite option is plaster relief works—adding dimension and subtle texture to the walls without overpowering the space.

The key is to curate art that speaks to you, that makes your space feel deeply personal. When done right, artwork can make your bedroom feel like a retreat—one that inspires, soothes, and gives you joy.

ACCENTS THAT COMPLETE THE LOOK

Finish layering your bedroom with carefully selected accents that make the room feel complete. A stack of curated books on your nightstand, a ceramic vase filled with fresh greenery, or a tray holding personal mementos all add thoughtful layers to your sanctuary. These accents should tell your story and invite you to unwind and relax each time you enter the room.

By layering textures, lighting, art, and accents, you create a space that feels deeply personal and, most importantly, like a true retreat. Each element, from the soft rug beneath your feet to the lighting overhead, works in harmony to evoke a sense of calm. The result is a bedroom layered with intention—a sanctuary that feels not only beautiful but entirely your own.

By thoughtfully layering, your bedroom becomes more than just a place to sleep—it transforms into a retreat, a haven designed for rest, renewal, and comfort.

The Perfect Room was written by Marie Flanigan and Susan Sully